How To Talk With Your Kids About Porn, a book review by Beth Rendeiro

 How To Talk With Your Kids About Porn, a book review by Beth Rendeiro

How to Talk With Your Kids About Porn is a book all of us should read. Although the term “porn”, referring to pornography, is in the title…and we do learn a lot about the current state of porn…the most important takeaway from this book is its emphasis on the need for communicating with young people. This is a book that’s accessible, non-judgmental, inclusive and fun to read. It offers a how-to format that guides us step-by-step toward becoming better communicators about sex, sexuality, media literacy and porn, describing different ages and stages and the topics and approaches that work best at each age. It helps us think, broadly, about online safety  and general sex education while honing in on the topic of porn.

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Book Review: Eliot Schrefer’s Queer Ducks (And Other Animals)

by Sebastian Madonado, CSUN School of Public Health Intern

Eliot Schrefer’s Queer Ducks (And Other Animals) is a well written, fun and eye opening book that looks to explore sexuality and gender outside of the two sex binary in the natural and animal world. The majority of this book is conducted in a sort of an interview style, where the author interviews animals such as penguins, bottlenose dolphins and ducks, asking them questions pertaining to sexual expression and gender roles. Although the interviews often bring on a funny tone to them, they serve as smooth segues for the author to further explore the everyday lives of these creatures such as how they breed, who they chose to sexually engage with and behaviors they often exhibit. Finally, the author explains how the animals compare and differ from other creatures, including ourselves, while using anthropology, zoology, and sociology to lay out credible evidence to sustain these claims. Schrefer also takes it beyond this and uses history to look at key biological discoveries, different points in human time, how gender and sexual norms have changed with the times and the acceptance and or condemnation these changes have brought with them. Overall, what this book attempts to do is no easy task; it looks to identify gender and sexual expression in the diverse animal world while attempting to then explain these to the reader using current human definitions and ideas. But all in all, Schrefer’s message resonates loud and clear; queerness is in fact not something unnatural, as some may claim, rather queerness itself is woven into the very fabric of nature itself and the rich and diverse animal kingdom shows us this. 

Iceland’s Outstanding Progressive Values About Sexuality--by Dr. Allie Melendez

Iceland’s Outstanding Progressive Values About Sexuality--by Dr. Allie Melendez

Sprakkar - an ancient Icelandic word meaning “outstanding women”

Eliza Reid, The First Lady of Iceland, has lots to say about Iceland’s historic and present attitude toward women to give us non-Icelanders proof that closing the gender gap is possible. Upon hearing that Eliza was promoting her book, Secrets of the Sprakkar, at a local temple in Los Angeles, I proceeded to order a ticket, purchase her book, and binge it. Like the lifelong learner I am, I did my homework.

Six years ago, Eliza was given a role with little to no job description when her husband, Gudni Johannesson, was elected President of Iceland.

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Someone asked us recently about our favorite books to give the parents of a new baby, and we couldn’t love this question more.

Someone asked us recently about our favorite books to give the parents of a new baby, and we couldn’t love this question more.

A family library builds a love of literacy from a young age, and reading to a child is proven to be one of the best things a caring adult can do to support their cognitive development. Reading together creates opportunities for healthy affection and intimacy, like ensuring that some pleasant snuggling time is a regular part of a bedtime routine.

Here are some of our favorite children’s books with beautiful art and meaningful messages that we encourage you to share with the tiny humans you love…

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